When Perfect Dialogue Fails: The Field Is the Therapy
WITH KOBUS VAN DER MERWE
Most Imago therapists can teach the Dialogue structure. Couples still leave the session and blow up. This taster names the real culprit: the field. A technically correct mirror delivered with contempt increases danger. An imperfect mirror delivered with warmth increases safety. Content is not the therapy — the Space-Between is.
In this session you’ll learn to spot micro-ruptures in the field, shift from coaching content to tending safety, and treat Zero Negativity and intentionality as field hygiene rather than optional add-ons. Come for the reframe. Stay for the keynote and two-day workshop, where we train repair speed and field mastery under heat.
Speaker
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Kobus van der Merwe
